- Entered Day 1
- Evicted Day 51
- 4 evictions faced
- 9 noms received
Steven is passionate about being successful and is a believer in always trying to outdo his rivals. He set up his first business in 2010, going in to direct competition in his parents – and now, after turning over his first million in 2010, his parents and brothers work for him.
He now aims to become Prime Minister, and would choose money over love because ‘money hurts and affects you less’: ‘I’ve been in love with someone with money, now I would rather have money.’
His last relationship was complicated as he found out the woman he was dating was married, but he is looking for love and says that if he meets someone and he likes them, he will go for it.
Steven says his friends would describe him as funny, easy going and very outgoing and caring. His best personality trait is his generosity: ‘I am extremely generous, spend stupid amounts of money and I’m always the first one at the bar to buy people drinks’.
His worst trait is that he can be controlling: ‘I like to control the situation and make sure I come out good and that I am getting the best of everything’.
Steven has a huge phobia of rats, and he says if he sees one ‘my bowel would probably drop out of my arse!’
He thinks he will be the centre of attention in the house: ‘Put it like this I don’t think I’d be boring. I have always been the centre of attention and I would have to make sure that everyone knew this’.
When asked if he thinks he will win Big Brother, Steven said: ‘Historically people who are gobby and stubborn, they don’t win, but I would like to think I could win’.
@Violet Definitely. I find it really hard to watch.
I’ve seen it before with members of my own family and all the signals are there.
I think there are signs of a genuinely dangerous character in him. Hopefully he will get some help after this.
@John Kane
I agree that the signals are all there. I can’t believe how much everyone in there likes him.
All I hope is that Kim gets back with her other boyfriend. Although then Steven might plan to murder him or something like that. I can see him as a psychopath 😀
@Violet You see that all the time with that kind of character.
The person that I knew who was like that was so loved and adored be everyone around him that it made it almost impossible for the woman involved to get out.
That’s often why it goes on for so long.
I’m not saying Steven is as bad as this person was because the person I’m talking about physically and emotionally abused his wife for years and years. It was tantamount to torture.
Like I said, hopefully he will get some help before it gets any worse.
Emma Willis stopped a member of the audience in BBBOTS tonight for suggesting all that been said. BB obviously shouting in her ear. But Yes I think Steven show all the sociopathic traits – which if left to develop can turn into violence.
Sociopaths are inherently ‘nice’ they tend to be popular, charming often articulate but underneath are extremely vulnerable and self loathing which they counteract with either narcissistic tendencies i.e loving themselves and boasting or the constant need for approval, looking for affirmation. I really think Steven needs some therapy before he self combusts, then the fall out will be for his family.
Kim is savvy she wont spend much time with him out of the house IMO.
I just like to say a big well done to BB for brushing the issue of domestic abuse under the rug!
After being in abusive relationship for years it made me sick the other night to watch it happening on a reality tv show. What are you people thinking can’t you see what going on and his behaviour would be made worse by being in the house this only going to get out of control faster then it normally would!
It’s a good job Kim got all them cameras on her or god knows what he do.
The faster you get him out BB the better
Steven is a twat. Bottom line. He needs constant reassurance. It makes my skin crawl hearing him say to Kim 100 times a day “do you know how much I love you?” “I love you, do you love me?” He’s shockingly insecure. I can’t wait to see him go. Making Kim tear up the pictures was stupid. She brought them in and she has a right to have them, whether she is with him or not. Get over yourself Steven, youre not that great….
Steven,Its all about Me Me Me……………….ye for sure, Your so far up your own Colon, You make me cringe :down: :down: :down: :down: :down: :down: :down:
He Crazy :tongue:
@Emma
😥 I am still in an abusive relationship,( married). he may not hit me, but the mental abuse I suffer every day is killing me and it is exactly what Stephen is doing to Kim. They won’t let you go, want to know your every movement and past history, tell you , you are destroying them if you try to leave. He is a bully of the worst kind, and Helen got pulled up for bullying, why not Stephen? He is not sweet or “in love” just a man who demands everything his way or nothing. He has to go. :down:
@annkaspchar
I agree with you that any type of domestic abuse should never just be swept under the carpet.
But you have the strength to admit that you are stuck in a similar position yourself so please promise me you will seek some help.
Abuse comes in many forms not just physical, and sometimes living in the fear of the possibility od that first slap/punch/kick more terrifying than actually receiving it. If your husband is using emotional blackmail by insisting that if you leave him he will be destroyed you have to ignore this, I don’t know if you have children but if you do they too will be in danger, he may use them as a bargaining tool against you but over an above that they are witnessing his behaviour and your response to that behaviour – it will become normal and acceptable – YOU need to break this chain of abuse.
There are many place you can go or call,
Try your GP, or social services they have a dedicated abuse line. You can google and go online to discuss your situation and you can remain anonymous if you wish. If he is checking your calls/emails computer history change then make sure you are careful.
Your situation will NEVER improve, you need to make changes for your own health and sanity. Please promise you will get some advice.
I just want to point out that many men are abused by their wives/girlfriends as well so its not just a one way street but abuse is abuse and sometimes phycological torture lasts a lot longer then a bruise.
@Jane Shepherd
100% agree Jane.
@annkaspchar
Ann you must get some help regarding this. I can only echo what Jane says.
I think Kim and Steve are simply not compatible. The circumstances in which they entered into a relationship are just too confusing and complicated that it will constantly ruin any chance they have of making things work. It’s about time they split ways. Steven is controlling, competitive, use to getting his own way and likes order and likes security whereas Kim is more free spirited and likes to dabble here and there as shown by the two different professions she has taken on and the fact that she entered The BB house on a break from her bf (Meaning she hasn’t fully parted ways from him but would like to explore what else is there). She is confused and is not looking for commitment despite what she says as we can clearly see on the show she withheld key info from Steven about her past relationships when he claims he has been an open book with her. They may in the long run both want commitment but they are at different stages of life and therefore this ‘showmance’ will not work all we see is continuous petty bickering. This is not a psychological matter Steven has come across as obsessive and cringe but he is a successful businessman and so he has a plan and order for everything. Kim is the kind of person who says ‘well see how things go.’ They are just opposites.
@Jane Shepherd and Bob
:heart: Thankyou for you very kind support. Yes I do have a child, a 15 yr old daughter who has grown to hate her dad, as she has witnessed how he talks to me and acts towards me. He has been under the mental health system for 20 years, but although I tell them what my husband does, he just says he has no reccollection he has said or done anything, and they believe him. He has started punching me in his ‘ sleep’ and calling me, then saying he remembers nothing. He started out just like Stephen, lavishing me with attention, telling me he loved me, buying me things and I fell for it, like Kim, then once married he asked me all about previous partners constantly, stopped me seeing friends and told me how to dress. I hate to put this on here as people were enjoying talking about the HM’s, but when I see people like Stephen, I want to jump in the telly and get Kim out. I know she is an adult but she is already showing signs of being worn down by Stephen. I am a designated carer for my husband, as the system has let me down, but she can get away. Once again thankyou. I don’t have facebook or twitter, so comming on here to read all your comments and banter is my escape.
:heart: to Jane and :heart: to Bob. You cheer me up with your lively debates. Keep them comming! :up:
@Annakaspcher
Of course we will keep up with the debates and the banter whether we agree or not the point is the discussion its what makes it fun!…..
Anna, you deserve some fun as well. You recognise so many of the classic traits that lead to abuse in Steven, and I know you feel that the mental Health system has let both you and probably your husband down.
It must be so hard to try and live the way you are living and still keep smiling for the sake of your Daughter. But Anna there are still other options for you. YOU DESERVE a better quality of life.
Seriously I don’t want you to think I am preaching at you but change your G.P then call Mental Health team that your husband is affiliated with (or write) Get the area co-ordinators name not just the social worker that is dealing him, explain your situation BUT then tell them that YOU as his official carer are at risk of breakdown. As his carer you need to be fit and well. Demand some respite care – this will give you some breathing space. As with most Health Authorities they try their best but unless you really state your case you will fall to the bottom of the pile. – I know its cliché but he who shouts loudest gets heard first.
Again a lot of Health Authorities will base decisions on costs so you have to be clear
Respite care will cost them money BUT if you have a breakdown or become physically ill due to the pressure stress and exhaustion, then finding someone to do what you do for your husband will cost them a hell of a lot more Anna.
So please believe me you need to pursue this again and stand firm until you get the help you need.
If all this sounds a bit overwhelming then you can talk to the Citizens Advice Bureau, they can make appointments and calls on your behalf.
But don’t give up Anna, your Daughter is only 15 and you are young enough to break free and start again, don’t let money or emotional blackmail keep you in such an unhappy place. Its never too late. :heart:
@annkaspchar
“You cheer me up with your lively debates.”
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I love a good mass debate.
@bob
You are incorrigible !! But I’m glad we both agree :up:
@Jane Shepherd
I’m glad you agree about liking a good mass debate too :up:
Cant stand Steven. The fact he done his parents over by setting up rival company and stealing all their clients absolutely stinks. He’s a bad’un through and through. Would sell his mother for self gain. Complete nonse. The only good thing about him being in the house is that everyone can see what an insincere self seeking twat he is !
This guy is a businessman ???? Is this fact the guy cant even manage himself.He has himself to blame forcing himself on to a vulnerable kim.Shes in too far but wants out but steven cant let it.Absolute tosser
Just to let you all know a quick search on companies house etc has revealed steven isn’t exactly a successful businessman. 7 of his companies have been dissolved. He’s absolute as fake as madam tussaudes. What a clown.
http://tellymix.co.uk/reality-tv/big-brother/189722-big-brother-2014-steven-goodes-business-worth-just-1000.html
If you can be bothered to read the link you’ll see what I mean but basically he’s full of s*%t and about as successful as Betamax.
Can you imagine actually having a business discussion with this man? ” do you want the order?” “I want you to do do business with me. Do you want to do business with me?” I want you to do business with me! Please do business with me.
Twerp.
Fingers crossed hes leaving tonight and the men in the white coats can take him away……. “Just take this tablet steven, everything’s going to be ok, yes steven we know about the 120 countries…..”
😀
I hope Steven reads all these!! Is so soo fake and controling! He is always looking fir an excuse to make him look better over kim and to look in a mirror I just wanna punch him! Biggest twat and he makes himself look like one himself hajaja
Love bb’s humour, open up to Steven :up:
@Bob
Absolutely ! and he didn’t actually get it himself and it went over Kims head too! – And Kims gone sick – quelle surprise
What also made me chuckle was Steven trying to justify his ‘firework’ statement to Pav. god he can talk lets hope he goes and Bianca goes !!
@Jane Shepherd
Yes funny about Kim going sick, coincidence? That does seem suspect.
I think they will make the right choice. Steven hopefully.